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6 And I was led by the Spirit, not knowingbeforehand the things which I should do.

7 Nevertheless I went forth...

1st Nephi Chapter 4:6-7

"Make sure they remember joy yesterday, experience joy today, and anticipate joy tomorrow."


Motherhood Mission Statement

To provide a loving environment that is centered around God and His commandments while effectively teaching my children to love, honor, and respect all Men no matter the race, creed, or background.

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Tuesday, March 27, 2012

what we do...





Just a second.... is March almost over?

Where has this month gone?  Where have I been?  What have we been doing?  Well, would you rather have a picture update or a word update?  I will make an executive decision and say, "both!"  I have been working hard in the opera, Suor Angelica that opened on Saturday.  We have another performance tonight and close out the opera this Friday and Sunday.  It has been so much fun and so much work.  This time of year means a visit from grandparents.  My parents rode the train from Kingman so they could help me out with the boys while I was in rehearsal.  We went to Explora, the zoo, and I am pretty sure the boys wore my parents out.  Stephen's Mom came for the next week of rehearsals and I know that she was exhausted when she headed home.  These boys seem to run a mile a minute! 














I am so grateful to my parents and my in-laws for always helping me out with my part time hobby.  I truly love to sing and I am SO blessed to have a family that will help out.

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Wait just a minute... has it been 6 YEARS?!

My wedding day, 6 years ago, was magical.  I think back and it feels just like yesterday.  We flew to San Diego in the morning and headed to our hotel with my parents and Stephen's parents.  We got dressed and headed to the San Diego Temple.  We were the last Sealing for day.  I was hoping to be done before the sun went down.  We were but some how, everyone got lost in the temple and I waited in the bridal room for them to be found.  An hour later, it was dark and they had been outside the entire time.  It was still beautiful to walk outside in the dark cold rain and try to take a few pictures to remember the day. 
Stephen is my everything.  My life.  My best friend.  My support.  My love.  I used to say that I wanted to marry my best friend, but I didn't know how to make that happen.  I really lucked out with Stephen because he found me and picked me to be his wife.  I love him with my whole heart and soul.  He understands me and doesn't pass judgment.  Trust me, he has many reasons to pass judgment, but he doesn't.  I have learned so much from him.  I am calmer.  Smarter.  Wiser.  Happier.  On top off all of that, we have the best two little boys!  Our lives are truly blessed.  I am happy.  Truly happy.







Tuesday, March 6, 2012

A memory

Evenings can get fairly chaotic here at the Barnes home. Last night was no different. I had spent the afternoon at the park with Nolen, then stopped at the store to pick up a few much needed items. By the time I arrived back home, it was well past five and the boys were ready for dinner. I scrambled to get dinner finished while also preparing for rehearsal. The boys finished dinner and were ready for their bath. I had only a few minutes to spare, so I stripped the boys down and put them in the tub. As I was just about to walk out the, Edward came running up to me saying Nolen peed in the tub. I walked over to the tub and saw a huge poo!!! I didn't have time to clean it up, so I took Nolen out of the tub and yelled, "sorry Stephen, there is poo in the tub." then I walked out the door.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

5 hours!

It took 5 hours and a LOT of drinks of juice and milk to get Edward to use the potty for the VERY first time!  I hope this is the beginning of something wonderful!